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I was 32 and didn't want a relationship with anyone. I was down on dating. I went to a leather bar. I meet my SO playing a video game. He took me home. We were married 21 years later and have been together for 24 years last month.

He was the last person I expected to want to be in a relationship, yet, I couldn't imagine not being with him since we met.

Just put yourself out there and live your life. Expect nothing from no one. Enjoy yourself being single and get to know who the heck you are.

That is the only advice. If you are out there living life, expecting nothing, and enjoy everything that life has to give good and bad; someone will take notice and want to be with you.