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I'm so sorry for your loss.

In my first year of college, I lost a close friend in a similar way. Perfectly healthy 18-year-old girl. Went to sleep in her dorm one night and never woke up. It was my first real experience with death, at least at an age that I could truly understand what was happening, and I think not having a real cause made it so much more difficult to process.

They did find a cousin afterwards who had an undiagnosed heart defect, but they said that it was likely unrelated. Still, a small bit of light I suppose from an otherwise tragic event, that otherwise it might not have been found and he might not have known.