[mchannon]

Hope you're not too committed to this partner. Based on the way you've described it, I'd run screaming from getting in bed with this individual.

Let's try a marriage analogy for giggles. My girlfriend is divorced, and she has a lot of bills from the former marriage. She wants us to get married and pay off her bills because that marriage was similar to what this one would be. She doesn't know much about men and the previous marriage was a learning lesson.