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In my neighborhood, the majority of adult men around my age smoke. So even if it isn’t normal at the national level, it is considered normal in my community. Possibly the author is in a similar situation.

It’s really amazing how much “normal” can differ across different groups of people. I have a group of cycling buddies for whom it’s normal to spend $5000+ on a bike, ride hundreds of kilometers a week, avoid drinking during the cycling season, and of course avoid smoking. And another group of friends who are the complete opposite - our get-togethers revolve around binge drinking, eating, smoking, and tossing a frisbee would be considered an unusual amount of physical exertion.

No judgement here in either case. They are all good people and we always have a good time when we get together. And I’m glad that I have some friends that can challenge and encourage me to become stronger and healthier. And other friends with whom I can laugh and joke and blow off steam.