[danmur]

Or they have borderline personality disorder and don't realise they're manipulating and hurting people :/

EDIT: So just to clarify since I think there's a disconnect between what I was saying and what people are hearing, I was talking about myself here. And I am a dude. People are complicated and our brains can go into a tailspin for lots of reasons. Like k8s only less complex and with less YAML.

[Mutttttioi]

It would be interesting to learn more about what type of people become incels

I do belive that most are 'just' normal humans who haven't gotten the proper feedback system in their lives which also implies that the incel crisis is not necessarily a mental health issue but a social issue.

It doesnt' make it easier of course if people with borderline personality disorder and others are also affected and potentially also take over those type of groups in a form or push them in particular directions.

[geraldhh]

> I do belive that most are 'just' normal humans who haven't gotten the proper feedback system in their lives which also implies that the incel crisis is not necessarily a mental health issue but a social issue.

probably both plus a bit of overrepresentation due to (social) media economics

[geraldhh]

yea, have met a lot of women meeting that definition

[newsclues]

Do you assume the same of women who don’t have sex?

[danmur]

I assume that some women who don't have sex suffer from BPD, yes. I can't recall ever thinking that about someone on an individual basis.

[newsclues]

Do you think there are also BPD women who do have sex and manipulate others and cause harm?

Do you think there is a difference between men and women in these situations?

[danmur]

Do you want to ask something in particular or is this just a long and annoying questionnaire? :)