[hn_burner_2038]

Unfortunately I think I _am_ boring to my wife and kids. I spend lots of time with them and I am very attentive to their needs, but I feel that I don't come in with my own interests or personality.

But I like the tack of this comment, I should focus my attention on the core set of people I care about.

[TomaszZielinski]

Would you agree that you have _plenty_ of interests and a personality (because everyone has!), but you have some underlying assumptions they are "wrong" for some reason?