[cafard]

With kids of 3 and 7 I have to think that you have plenty to occupy you. Your kids school or extra-curricular activities will probably get you new acquaintances soon. (We are in touch still with some people we met through our son's school or school activities, and he is older than you are.)

You could try volunteer activities I suppose.

And let me also say that 33 is hardly even "getting middle aged".

[hn_burner_2038]

> will probably get you new acquaintances soon ... 33 is hardly even "getting middle aged".

Ha, yes, saying "old" is definitely being melodramatic. I suppose I am concerned that, given my current bland state, I will have a hard time creating and sustaining connections with the ample time I have left.

[tanseydavid]

>> given my current bland state, I will have a hard time creating and sustaining connections with the ample time I have left.

Recognize that it takes effort to create and sustain connections.

It is difficult whether or not you are in a "bland state."

Do not assume that creating and sustaining connections is easy for others.

[stcredzero]

And let me also say that 33 is hardly even "getting middle aged".

Yeah, I totally also had a false mid-life crisis at around that age. Take it from me, you're YOUNG! Make the most of it while you still are!

[randomopining]

I think people move on from the early/mid 20's vibe, aren't as interested in the glamour of going out, etc... and then all of a sudden they think "I'm old!"

It's definitely a different distinct stage, like a true young adulthood. Can last like 26-40 or so for some.

[airbreather]

yes but you also need to maintain/prepare for a time when the children won't need you so much. Mine are 16 and 19 but still need significant time.

But you don't to all of a sudden realize they are off on their own life, and they were your primary, or even only, focus.