[boringg]

Why did I get downvoted - I am asking a legit question. I don't understand.

[ska]

I suspect because you came across as judgmental and opinionated more than questioning. I'm not saying you meant to, just that is how it could read.

[allarm]

> I suspect because you came across as judgmental and opinionated

No, they did not.

[ska]

Note I said it wasn't clear that they meant to be, just that you can see how people (those downvoting) could read it that way. It was quite categorical, and "obsessive" has negative connotations.