I always did hold the fob close to my palm (with the keyring parts between my fingers) and pointing the fob "up", hopefully aligning a whip in there. It does work better this way, and I can also hold it high up. My theory was that my hand acts as a ground-plane.
So your direct point is manufacturers have tuned fobs for best connectivity when held /against the user’s forehead/? I must’ve never seen the user manuals…