[JoeNr76]

> I think nobody in my country would say going out to eat is better than eating at home.

You haven't eaten at a 2 or 3 star restaurant then. They use ingredients you don't have access too, using techniques you can't use at home and pair them with wines or juices you haven't heard about.

However good you think your home cooking is (I think I'm a fairly good cook), you don't come to the knees of a chef with such a restaurant.

Yes, they are not cheap. But neither is buying a bigger house.

And if it's about getting together, who cooked the food doesn't matter. Or even get together without food, that works too.

[potatolicious]

... I've eaten at enough Michelin-starred restaurants in my life that if you summed them it'd be well over 200. I'm not a stranger to fine dining.

... and I still want to host people at my house and cook for them?

Fine dining for you may be a strictly superior replacement to home cooking (or alternatively: home cooking is what you do when you cannot have fine dining instead) - but many of us don't see it that way. They are complementary.

Yeah, my cooking isn't Thomas Keller... but that's not actually what it's about? In the same way I'm not Chris Nolan but yet I want to take video at family events?

And if I can say so: seeing fine dining as a strictly superior replacement of home cooking is a regretful way to view the world.

[ay]

It is very curious for me that in a lot of comments there is no allowance for even a possibility that there is more than a single metric of “betterness” for different people and different occasions.

What these “unnecessary extras” or in the contrary “smaller footprint” give is the increased freedom of choice for that particular individual’s situation.

There is no free lunch - every benefit comes with its set of drawbacks. Extra rooms need furnishing and taking care of, cars need maintenance and parking etc.

Different people put different multipliers for each of them.

And this is fine, by the standards of a modern western society.

[JoeNr76]

What you find regrettable is your problem, not mine.

If I invite people, I do it for the people, if I go out to eat I do it for the food. I don't see why this regrettable just because you think it is.

[mlrtime]

Living in NYC I used to think this way. Why would anyone want to live anywhere else, from street food in Queens, Le Bernardin, Omakase only menus ...etc.

The 3 star restaurants get old very fast. too expensive, way too long to eat. Very pretentious. As I got older I came to value home cooking many times higher than any restaurant that NYC can offer.

I highly suggest people try these places to understand what is possible with food, but don't value them any higher.

[JoeNr76]

I never said that you should prefer 3 star restaurant. I was responding to the specific claim that home cooked meals are always better than eating out.