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by jncfhnb 904 days ago
Your advice is shit that’s what’s wrong. Your situation is not the same as others. Everyone knows what you’re saying. You’re not giving useful info saying “power through it”. You’re bragging.

So good job. But shut up. Whatever rudeness you feel from me saying shut up is FAR less rude and unhelpful than the poor people you’re telling to “power through it” who are certain that they cannot. Because you are implicitly calling them weak. And that’s fucked up.

Because for the third time, it might be MUCH harder for them to lose weight than you.

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You admit you don't know what advice I'm giving, yet you insist it's me just telling them to power through it and my motivations are as a braggart.

You can't see how presumptuous and rude this is? And how weak you are presuming all of these people are? Treating them as if they have no agency and they cannot handle hearing someone else's life experience.

While I don't doubt for many people it would be harder to lose weight than it was for me, you also have no idea how hard it was for me to lose weight. So what? Other people like me exist.

I lost weight by listening to other people who lost weight and learning from their experience, and I'm available to do the same for others. Why you think this is "fucked up" and demand I shut up is just bizarre.

I have no issue telling you where to shove your unsolicited advice. Especially when the advice is suggesting people, who have almost certainly tried suffering through to suffer through it in the context of looking at an alternative that works for people that have struggled with the approach you’re injecting here.

If people want your advice on diet and exercise they can ask for it. Otherwise, I trust they know it’s an option