[anonymoushn]

Here's the OP (the user, replying, not writing the opening post) to clear this up for us.

> It just takes a lot out of me physically, emotionally and mentally. Wondering if I need to be spending that much of myself. I feel like I work twice as hard as everyone else.

[epgui]

Thank you, this is information I did not have when I wrote my comment.

I was responding to the main prompt, and I did write this:

> (Disclaimer: everything I’ve said is based on inferences and incomplete information.)