Erlang is indeed impressive. But there is a big learning curve (at least for me!) and a whole new tool-set to support. It would be great if a Ruby/ZeroMQ based framework modelled on Erlang became widely adopted.
Most of the learning curve really is OTP. And as with Cocoa, the only way to skip those is to reinvent them, or not even reach an understanding of the problem they're solving.
I'd expect an equivalent toolset on a different platform to have an equivalent learning curve if it existed at all.
Big learning curve, pretty piecemeal support for lots of things compared to popular languages, and a mental model that is difficult for less advanced programmers spell something that will likely never be all that popular.
I'd expect an equivalent toolset on a different platform to have an equivalent learning curve if it existed at all.