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by doix 903 days ago
I believe this can be more generic, having something you're into makes every day enjoyable.

I had that realization a couple of years ago. Happiness for me is doing less things I don't enjoy and more of the things I do enjoy.

Gaming is nice because there is little effort to start. Just sit in front of a PC and play.

Something like surfing requires more effort, getting changed, getting to a beach with waves, etc. I hate the setup, but it's possible to minimize it by living somewhere warm (no wet suit needed) and on the beach so you don't need to drive.

That's how I live my life nowadays. Doing very few things I don't enjoy, minimizing the effort required to do the things I do enjoy and doing things I actually enjoy instead of things I'm indifferent about (like watching garbage Netflix shows).

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I think any therapist will tell you that it's best to have something to look forward to; probably small, near-term things as well as large, long-term goals. When you don't have anything to do, the future looks pretty grim. I've long given up on anything like finding some sort of meaning to all this, but I do try and find little enjoyable stuff to do.

I think exercise is pretty key and applying the philosophy above of doing the type of exercise you like and making it easy to do is very helpful.

"The three grand essentials of happiness are: Something to do, someone to love, and something to hope for."

- Alexander Chalmers

Completely agree about exercise. If you're able to make exercise the thing you look forward to every day, it feels like a cheat code for life.