[mynameisnoone]

Blame doesn't really help solve or prevent problems. Root cause, blameless analysis with awareness and new tests and mitigation does. Also, career-wise, you won't become an IC9 by admitting to making a lot of mistakes. It's best to just solve them as fast as possible.

[abstrakraft]

I find laying of blame to be the most egregious waste of time, for work as well as personal issues. People who insist on it are, by and large, not people you want to spend time or money with.

[bertil]

Are you IC9?

[davedx]

Agree. Honesty, transparency, professionalism.

Practice those first, then work on inter personal soft skills.

Don’t bullshit people by lying to them about “whose fault it is”.