[mgaunard]

People always complain about stainless steel when they come to my house and that's what I usually give them as that is the one I'm least worried about them damaging.

I just don't think normies are interested in something which requires technique and understanding. Stainless steel requires some level of temperature control.

[tomcam]

> People always complain about stainless steel when they come to my house

Tough audience. Of all the people who have ever come to my house none has ever had a thing to say about cookware.

[apwell23]

I think gp like to talk about their kitchen equipement to houseguests based on the comment "I just don't think normies are interested.." :D

[loloquwowndueo]

You probably don’t make them cook like that other guy does rofl

[tomcam]

If I do, though, I will brutally enforce the all stainless requirement. mgaunard and I don’t pussyfoot around. We know what’s what.

[mgaunard]

Usually, when you receive guests, they insist on helping in the kitchen. It would not be polite to reject that.

Also cooking is a social activity.

[jpsouth]

That’s really interesting, from a cultural perspective, in the UK and my circle at least, if I was entertaining guests I’d be horrified if they were to so much as raise a finger in the kitchen.

I’ll do the prep, cooking, cleaning, hosting, and everything else, thank you. If you want something, ask and it will be given, but to think of my guests _working_ when I’m hosting is far from my nature and far from how I’ve experienced being a guest.

I’d invite you to come and cook with me if I wanted you to cook with me, but if you arrive as a guest under no circumstances would I expect, nor want them to be doing anything in the kitchen or around the house, personally.

[mgaunard]

I'm also in the UK.

It depends on the nature of the event and of the guests.

[loloquwowndueo]

Maybe they’re expecting to be rejected (think of how in Chinese culture one is expected to politely reject a gift the first time) and then are surprised and angry when you literally take them up on their offer, and take it out on your cookware ?

[tomcam]

Yet they are rude enough to criticize your cookware!

[mgaunard]

Being polite/considerate doesn't mean being stuck up.

[yurishimo]

How does stainless require more temperature control than something like non-stick or cast iron? If anything, stainless will cool on-par or faster, especially when compared to cast iron.

If people don't know how to cook to the point where they are burning food based on what type of pan they are using, then I would argue they don't know how to cook... very few everyday dishes need to start on a ripping hot pan.

[CharlieDigital]

It needs to be in the right range to prevent food from sticking.

[mgaunard]

You'd ideally need to understand the Leidenfrost effect.

And no, you don't want to set it to the max, that's a common mistake.