The real problem is teaching children that "reading" is merely decoding words off a page, and "listening" is merely hearing the words someone says.
The book itself is a way to open the door to learning, not the end point. Reading subject titles first, cross-referencing, and working examples and doing projects help teach and cement ideas.
There's techniques like SQ4R [1] for reading, and hugely applicable to general technical and article reading is "How to read a paper" [2]. For lecturers, there's "How to Speak" [3], and for those attending a talk there's the Cornell Notes system. [4]
To others wondering about the discrepancy between SQ4R being mentioned in the comment text and the title of the linked source being SQ3R (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SQ3R), it looks like others [1] add an additional R (marked with an asterisk below), for the following: