[lukifer]

I accept the rebuke. :)

But it seems to me that part of the purpose of TCombinator is to get people to take TG individuals more seriously, and I would think that includes dialoguing with Neanderthals like me. I posted in part to spill my guts, but in part because I want to hear the other side as well.

[tim_chevalier]

There's plenty that's been written about trans issues and gender issues, much of which is available for free on the Web. Trans people are not unpaid tutors or teachers for cis people (if you don't know what "cis people" means, look it up). Do the research, and then come with questions that show you've done it.