[k8svet]

Grindr. That might sound pithy but it absolutely highlighted how much my own anxiety and insecurity was in my own head. Turns out getting a job when I'm "fuck it, the worst be can do is say no" attitude also is enabling for that working past that anxiety. I think the nature of the app and environment makes it feel like the stakes are lower. For a default-insecure person, it has really helped me grow.