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by HumblyTossed 939 days ago
> Probably because parents cuddled their kids to sleep during the lockdowns as a stress reducer for both of them, rather than turning out the lights and leaving the room.

That's a good thing. Child has a need, Parent meets that need. That is a healthy relationship. But... the parent should have worked to ween the child from this behavior back to a normal sleeping situation.

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I think "normal" is relative here. My understanding is that it's mostly Western cultures that consider co-sleeping to be a bad thing.
From my reading it isn't really good or needed. Cuddling is great but child should learn to sleep on their own.

A parent should not be meeting every want of a child.

Funny. You translated “need” to “want”. A parent should meet a child’s need. That is absolutely necessary for development. If a child is nervous and needs cuddling, do it.
Funny, how you are saying that somehow sleeping with your child is a need. It isn't.
It's not a negative either. Large parts of humanity sleep as a family and I'm not aware that it causes any problems.
Funny how you leave out that the child was stressed in this situation. Exceptions for helping a child through a stressful situation is meeting a need.