[RoyalHenOil]

I agree that friendly competition is important. It's the "relative to their peers" part that I find shocking.

Obviously I want my own children to live the best possible life I can give them, but I want their peers to do well, too. It is crazy to me to care only about your children's status in their community, rather than their absolute wellbeing and the wellbeing of the community they are a part of.