[yCombLinks]

That's just not how I view it. Here's the rule. Check if the garbage needs to go out every afternoon. Absolutely fine. Vs remember if this matters -> torture! I can work 100% of the time to make sure the clearly set out objectives are met without complaint. Once it becomes subjective, I would rather not be involved.

[growingkittens]

I think their point was "why does someone else have to make the checklist for you?"

> Once it becomes subjective

Relationships are subjective. It takes a collaborative effort to make them objective. Subjective is the default mode.