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by mattbgates 955 days ago
Never ever mention "divorce" in your marriage. Should never even be part of either of your vocabulary. "Communication", "Compliance", "Compromise" are keys to making sure it works. You married her. She married you. Figure it out and make it work.

I didn't follow this advice and now I have a broken heart for the rest of my days.

3 comments

So true.

I only have 4 years of "experience" but I realised early on I should never use the D-word no matter whatever the situation. It's the only thing that has kept my marriage.

Now we are on a better path and more understanding of each other.

You might have made a mistake, but your next relationship should be better because of it.
Try to be more upbeat —- you will be getting a second chance.