to be honest i don’t want someone to be on my journey unless they commit to it. i don’t need some guy on my journey who is never going to invest or commit and is just there to pass time.
Well certainly, everything is a negotiation and boundaries are important. Commitment means different things to different people. 50% of first marriages end of divorce. If you’re asking for more commitment then that for these transient/ephemeral experiences, hooboy do I have bad news for you. Take what you can get but hope for the best.