[hifromLA]

It’s maybe worse than what you say, because there is a vicious cycle where individuals whose time is absorbed by parasocial relationships are less available to people around them. Those people may in turn become isolated and turn to… parasocial relationships.

[OfSanguineFire]

> individuals whose time is absorbed by parasocial relationships are less available to people around them.

I’ve seen Mastodon and Tumblr users post, “I’m sick of people saying I should spend time with my neighbors. They’re probably TERFs/MAGA/whatever.” (There may be analogues mutatis mutanda on other sites, I don’t know firsthand.) You’ll have a hard time convincing people that social walling-off is a bad thing when they have elevated it to a virtue.

[shiroiuma]

>“I’m sick of people saying I should spend time with my neighbors. They’re probably TERFs/MAGA/whatever.”

This isn't entirely wrong-headed though, I think it's just a symptom of a society that's become too divided. If you want a healthy community of people living together in one place, they need to all share a common culture and ethical framework. In America these days, that just isn't the case, and you can't expect people to be buddies with people who happen to live close by, but have diametrically-opposed viewpoints and even view them as evil (for instance, the neighbor is a MAGA person and the person in question is homosexual).

[ethanwillis]

The solution is for us to inject advertising into communications of real relationships. Telegram chats, discord calls+chats, facetime, and so on.

Just imagine you could take your SO to lunch or dinner for free*!

* requires 1000 2 minute ad breaks