Sorry but I feel like you are trying to be clever here but failing entirely because yes that is how it works. Continuous investment yields unexpected outcomes is like the core tenet.
Dude, the core tenet of this forum is making a good-faith [1] effort to really understand the fantastically complex issues at play here, and then to communicate about them honestly in a collaborative, rather than competitive, spirit.
^ Go read the comment guidelines. Really read them.
I dare you (rhetorically, not really: I won't read any further replies from
you so save your breath) to then assert with a straight face that you've been paying even a lick of heed to a single one of them.
With this in mind, I am unwilling to engage with you further on the matter-- but I will say in closing that I genuinely hope that you may someday find true peace and self-acceptance.
I don't mean this flippantly: you'll truly be lots happier if you can eventually let go of the compulsive need to "win" every argument or exchange and learn to actually listen to others with an open mind.
You are not doing that.
[1]: https://www.cato.org/sites/cato.org/files/2020-07/Good_Faith...