Things do change for some, all the time. When someone pushes the envelope, says No to whatever, decides This won't do, things are changing for the better for those involved, because they force change.
If You decide you're gonna accept lower than your real worth, or sell yourself too cheap, because You are afraid of not getting whatever You wish to get, this is when You become the loser You claim you're not.
The truth is: fear will always deceit the fearful, and there is always enough for everyone. You gotta believe it.