[codingdave]

I'd recommend telling your therapist what you just told us. Put it in words they'll hear: Tell them that you are financially stable and want to set a boundary with them, that they don't push you to find work before you are ready. If they are unable to cooperate with that, let them know that you aren't comfortable continuing with them and want them to refer you to someone else who is a better fit.

Therapists know that it can take some trial and error to match up a patient with the right therapist, so typically you can expect them to be willing to help you move on to someone better matched to your needs.