[nicbou]

I treat all relationships the same. Every new person naturally finds its place in my life. Some become friends, some become business partners, and some become significant others. Dating apps force you to slot people before you've even met them and I don't like it.

Roughly speaking:

- Work in public. I have met a lot of people through the work I do (see my profile). All sorts of good relationships have come out of that. Being open, friendly and generous with my time has helped a lot.

- Be genuine. Join communities as a sincere participant. Don't join a community to hit on its members. Everyone hates that.

- Be open. I have taken to inviting interesting internet strangers to meet, and had a lot of success with it. If I enjoy people, I actively reach out to them. Most people are friendly, just a little busy.