[wundie]

"If I had a million dollars I'd do 2 chicks at the same time!"

Seriously, I don't see the issue. Do you have any friends? If you're lacking in the friends department then don't read any further and work on companionship as your number one goal. I find a lot of joy organizing events, outings or exciting weekends for my friends. Make sure the trip has a baseline that everyone can afford and then maybe cover a tab or two while you're out. Ideas don't have to be grandiose they are just excuses to hang out and enjoy life together. I thought of a few things I enjoy and listed them below. Have fun planning these events on your own. Research destinations fully and be prepared to promote your trips so others will join you! Its time consuming (and fun) to figure out the 'best' places to go. Does the outing require that you buy any gear? Research the equipment and then buy it!

Go Camping

Hiking

Deep Sea fishing

Host a wine party / plan a trip to a winery

Trip to another City for the Weekend

Trip to another Country

Get a boat

Attend a music festival (Jazz Fest for example)

Take up a sport like Biking (Road or Mountain)

Hopefully this helps you out somewhat. If you wish to be as happy as me, I'll require $5 to share 'the secret'.

Enjoy :)