[coderintherye]

Stop focusing on what others (family, society, etc.) want you to be and instead accept yourself for who you are and focus on enjoying life.

That's it. Simple, yet also exceedingly hard given how difficult it is to root out all judgement of both others and self.

[iwant2endmyself]

It's not what others want me to do, it's what I wanted to do and I couldn't because of my own inaction and maybe my own low capability and intellect.