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Sometimes even something that seems positive (like organization or project management) can be a form of avoidance.

That's why the concept of "workability" can be helpful. When you find yourself spending time on project management instead of the project, you can ask "Is this workable? Is it serving me in the long run, or is it taking me away from the life I want to live?" Workability is contextual, so your judgment on it may change day to day.