"forced to do RFCs on GitHub" The author has raised 1 RFC ever. Have you evidence they attemnpted to contribute more in the past? Proposals to form a steering committee? sponsorship? PRs?
Yes I am part of the community. Yes I have used clickhouse for many years now. Yes I have recommended clickhouse to a number of others and helped them personally get started. I think it's a great piece of technology.
Just to make sure, we are on the same page.