[jandrewrogers]

The big one is metaprogramming. Most people that have never really used it grok how powerful (and clean and maintainable) it has become in recent versions of C++. I work on a few different C++20 code bases and the amount of code that is no longer written because it is generated at compile-time with rigorous type safety is brilliant. It goes well beyond vanilla templating, you can essentially build a DSL for the application domain.

Another one, with a more limited audience, is data models where object ownership and lifetimes are inherently indeterminate at compile-time. Since C++ allows you to design your own safety models, since they are opt-in and not built into the compiler, you can provide traditional ownership semantics (e.g. the equivalent of std::unique_ptr) without exposing the mechanics of how ownership or lifetimes are resolved at runtime. Metaprogramming plays a significant role in making this transparent.

Those are the two the matter the most for my purposes. They save an enormous amount of code and bugs. Rust has a litany of other gaps (lack of proper thread local, placement new, et al) but I don't run into those cases routinely.

The data structure thing you mention would be annoying but to be honest I rarely design data structures like this. For performance, most data structures tend to rely on clever abuse of arrays.