[teakie]

they are actually toots. it's an feature that other people can read what you say in private to someone and ban you if it's creepy (the conversation) besaid feature is active on all instances it's not opt out. no instance has an inhouse fix (think they would post about it, since people like to talk in private. I mean almost every human on earth does use e2ee but mastodon is such an (honestly? the devs are drunk or something really fishy going on there. they got funding and build an client (that is exactly what was NOT need or useable or their thing)) clusterfuck. it's to complecated they say. I know, ping me if you have same thought, it's easy to fix!