[richev]

I somehow agree with both of these points, but am not sure I understand how that can be.

[diab0lic]

It can both serve a function (help build extended relationships) and be something people don’t want to do because those relationships can be severed in an instant thanks to at will employment.

[twobitshifter]

And even if you or they leave, in many forms of business having friends in another company can be huge in providing a safety net or a path towards a better job. Socialization with others may be the closest thing to a union that devs have. If Amazon cuts your job, your old buddy who moved to MS might be a lifeline.

[esafak]

You can compartmentalize your personal and professional personas. Also, you should be doing all that trust building on the clock.

[earth-adventure]

One statement relates to inter personal relationships. The other relates to the employer - employee relationship.