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by rg111 1014 days ago
Who is living in all this hedonism?

Every person like me (white collar middle/upper-middle class) is extemely aware of their health, regulates choice of food severely, lives a disciplined life. Every poor person I know works two shifts or has a secondary occupation to make ends meet, and is one medical emergency away from bankruptcy.

Now, I have known few uber-rich who live in hedonistic ways, but the number is extremely small. All of us are living an extremely self-regulated lives.

Where are all the hedonistic people I keep hearing about? I am seriously asking.

2 comments

i'm not being hyperbolic when i say that i genuinely don't know a single person in real life whose life isn't entirely governed by the search for instant pleasure/gratification.
Remember than hedonism is not necessarily about all of those rich pleasures. It’s a philosophy. And you are most likely surrounded by people like yourself, so you probably can’t see it. I see plenty of regular people who are driven by feeling good almost entirely