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by korijn 1009 days ago
I guess the thing that stands out to me is that this story shows the value of managers. John is obviously more experienced in dealing with emotional people (we are all that person sometimes).
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Or maybe the angry partner only listened to John because he is also a partner. There was probably nothing the author could have said to placate him, being a lowly tech in the unfortunate position of having to tell a partner something they didn’t want to hear. But hearing the same explanation from someone he considered a peer was apparently enough to satisfy him.

In other words, this shows the importance of titles.

For some, this is indeed crucial. But there are plenty of people who are receptive to effective communication regardless of title.
I was expecting this to be the conclusion at first, this ability to empathize and stay calm regardless of the other person's demeanor is a superpower.
Another possibility. This happens alot. The partner gets one of these calls a week and has become ept at handling it.