[bowsamic]

You are heavily projecting onto him. You don’t know anything about him and even if you did unless he’s being openly belligerent it’s not your place to fix him

Just let people build things. There’s no need to aggressively tear them down. Programming for fun is not serious

[earthboundkid]

You are projecting that people need unconditional affirmation. Why? Normal people can handle mild criticism.

[bowsamic]

Just because you dislike unconditional affirmation doesn't mean you need to delude yourself into thinking that being a total asshole without provocation is "mild criticism"