[red-iron-pine]

You can do everything right and your kid will still have an ACE.

Lil Timmy falls down a well, or has a really handsy neighbour, or has to see someone get hit by a car.

Like, obviously, don't beat your kids, but you don't need to be superlative parent, esp. since a great deal of their education and raising will happen, essentially, in someone elses workplace (i.e. school).