[delineator]

Don't just assume...

1. Create bumble account

2. Filter for Age: > 35, Kids: "Want someday"

3. Swipe right

[rambambram]

> Filter for Age: > 35, Kids: "Want someday"

And... you're in bed with a borderliner or covert narcissist before you know it.

Maybe this important step is missing: vetting the prospective mother of your children for some time?

[lisardo]

I learned this lesson the hard way.

[francisofascii]

Well, that is one action people could take. Agree that you should stop waiting and start a plan and start taking steps to make something happen. If it doesn't work, at least you tried.

[Dudester230602]

Might as well get a surrogate.

[antisthenes]

Surely you mean swipe left?

Age 35+ woman without kids is such a massive red flag, it might as well be Communist China invading.