It’s only a false dilemma if there’s a third, etc. possibility. You can’t just assume that every problem has a magical happy solution that requires no tradeoffs.
3. the same signup requirements for the participants instead of just the host
4. phone number verification for the host and participants
5. a credit card for the host and participants
6. some kind of deposit for the host and participants
7. discriminating against Tor users
8. including Apple ID in the list of auth services
9. it actually not being Jitsi Meet's obligation at all and authorities continue to prosecute the criminal action of the participants by doing actual investigations
3. the same signup requirements for the participants instead of just the host
4. phone number verification for the host and participants
5. a credit card for the host and participants
6. some kind of deposit for the host and participants
7. discriminating against Tor users
8. including Apple ID in the list of auth services
9. it actually not being Jitsi Meet's obligation at all and authorities continue to prosecute the criminal action of the participants by doing actual investigations
10. ...