[spinchange]

It may surprise you to read this, but I genuinely appreciate your extended remarks and context. I've been thinking about these ideas, and find it interesting now that I understand you were coming from a philosophical place and not merely an "oh, just suck it up" one to a complete stranger.

[nsomaru]

It's true, I read my OP and realised that it was too rushed, and lacked explanation. Not very charitable to his situation, no doubt.

When you spend long enough in a subject, what seems obvious to you might not be to others.

Don't let those thoughts leave you. Imo they are the only thoughts truly worth thinking.

Good luck with your explorations :-)