Do their children (i.e. you and your siblings if any) get to access it? If yes, it’s not a complete waste.
My mom received a portion of my father's air force pension after he passed, but not us since we weren't dependents any longer.
When you take a job with a pension, you run the risk of not being able to collect that pension if you die early. But it’s your choice to take the job.
https://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc751
My mom received a portion of my father's air force pension after he passed, but not us since we weren't dependents any longer.