[nunez]

doubly so if you're a black dude in a majority-white church. (this happened to me.)

it's very uncomfortable.

you're also a prime target for any and all volunteering activities. great if you really love the church; unbelievably awkward otherwise.

i went to a mega-church once. (hillsong nyc in 2011.) it was a weird experience that i didn't want to do again, but they definitely put together a really nice product, and you could absolutely hide in plain sight.