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by noduerme 1029 days ago
What about when you infantilize your employees and implicitly insult their intelligence by having them do exercises designed for 3rd graders? Is that the time to top it off with criticism for them taking themselves too seriously?
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gochi 1028 days ago
The dramatic reaction to doing group activities like stretching being viewed as an "insult" indicates that person has a very low emotional IQ. So yes, that's a great time to get them to stop taking themselves too seriously!
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noduerme 1028 days ago
Also, look at you, Jesus, being the arbiter of who's got emotional IQ - the people who follow your exercise routines? People you like? I'm not speaking to you, but to anyone reading this: Anyone like the person I'm responding to, who jumps to assign judgment of some failing on those that don't go along with their program (or implies someone who doesn't go along with the group must be flawed or weak) is a narcissist and a sick control artist, and a bully who's just learned to use fancy language to make you feel bad about your absolutely 100% natural inclination to reject and call HORSESHIT on the metaphysical group crap they're selling. You, pal, just revealed yourself as one such peddler.
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noduerme 1028 days ago
Actually, quite the opposite. People with high "EQ" are particularly sensitive to the discomfort invoked in individuals by hamfisted attempts at generating group conformity. But it's wonderful to have your emotional intelligence insulted while your intellect is under assault.

One way you know you're in a cult and being manipulated is that you or someone else is being singled out as an example of someone who's unwilling to adhere to whatever ridiculous stunt they're being asked to perform. The person asking them to do it is usually a psychopath using the oldest trick in the book: The ability to manipulate people by leveraging the innate human need for approval from the group.

And it's always those with emotional intelligence who are singled out for abuse. Of course, the psychopaths running the experiment also have "high EQ" - of a very particular and malevolent sort.

Rating: Cheap trick, poorly executed. 2/5. And not nice.

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tomjakubowski 1028 days ago
None of these exercises were designed for third graders
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noduerme 1028 days ago
What on earth do they have to do with "design"? All I see is a handbook for middle managers to force employees to submit to debasing rituals.
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