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by hdjfkfbfbr 1031 days ago
My advice. Take a year off. Renovate a house and see if it is what you want.

If you are burnt out. This is a good way to recharge. But the work is hard and it doesn't get easier.

Did this a few years ago and I it helped me get back to software engineering.

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I agree with the core of your advice: a friend of mine wanted to restore bikes. I gave him mine as a test, and the experience taught him that he doesn't really want to restore bikes.

That said, I'll proudly wear my "off-topic" downvotes to nitpick that "find a spare house" sounds to me as affordable as "find a spare Ferrari".

Sent from my balcony-less apartment

you are looking at it in terms of minimum effort needed. it can cost less, but you would have to give more.

you are in an apartment without a balcony, it is a relatively safe assumption that you are in a high cost of living area. at least relatively. your bike anecdote near confirms it.

if you were to look for a “spare house,” or rather a somewhat rundown but plausibly restorable house, without leaving your current location, you would likely be hard-pressed to do so.

if you were to expand your search, look in less valued areas, more rural, less desirable, you might be surprised the “finds” that are out there. for some, touring such a find may be enough to convince them that this is not actually their path.

a year without a job, by choice, is much more the measure of privilege here.

Second this, Slightly different, but I dropped out of university and worked on a small farm for a season.

Turns out I'm a terrible farmer, but electrical engineering is actually a pretty good fit for me. Finished up my degree easily when I went back to school.

> But the work is hard and it doesn't get easier.

I agree, low paying hard work is not a good solution for boredom or a midlife/existential crisis.