[Tao3300]

> You do not need to sit down to mediate.

I find that if I try to mediate standing up I come across as aggressive.

[fuzztester]

Some things are better done in private, because some people don't get what you're doing and feel fazed or threatened by it, for whatever reason, typically ignorance or intolerance.

[Tao3300]

Yes, usually privacy is valued over transparency in mediation. It depends on the parties involved and their concerns, naturally.