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by Spearchucker
5206 days ago
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Understanding the audience, as you suggest, is not, in my experience, what makes for a good speaker. I've spoken in front of audiences - large and small - more times than I can remember. Some of my talks tanked. Badly. Most go really, really well. And the difference between the tankers and the good ones is one thing - a belief in what I'm saying. It can (and often has been) an openly hostile audience (I've had people unexpectedly sit in just because I was "the guy from Microsoft", and that presented them with a rare opportunity to heckle). And most times I win those over as easily as the ones that are open to what I have to say to begin with. And it's quite simply that when you believe in your message, when you just know you're right/your approach is right/your message has integrity, that you appear authentic. And authenticity is very compelling, as a speaker. |
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I didn't mean to suggest a reductionism in favor of one factor over all others; I was simply replying to a statement in the grandparent comment about the relationship between audience and speaker. (Also, I'm not suggesting that one should pander to his audience).