[Tade0]

> I find it funny that the author suggests that husbands have more time for hobbies and friends;

I remember handing my father in law an article detailing "tasks women do that are invisible to men".

His reply: "It says here that I'm a woman."

I've found that it's less about who is more burdened, but how the burden is dealt with.

Case in point: I prefer assigning responsibilities, my SO having everyone watch over everything - we're not the only household where the divide lies here.

It's hard, because our respective approaches drive the other party up the wall.